well i want to know if God understands why we teens masturbate over others by lusting or does he get mad over it?not to get personal but i masturbate and lust.does that make me a bad person?i mean i am 15 years old an i can't control myself.so does God understand?Does God understand about teenagers lusting and masturbating since we can't control it?
It's normal. Don't feel bad about it, you are at an age when hormones are raging. Anyone who tells you that God does not approve of masturbation is misinformed.Does God understand about teenagers lusting and masturbating since we can't control it?
I would say that He understands why adult males do it, so I would like to think that He also comprehends why you do it.
While I think I understand why you want Him to understand, there really is nothing to forgive (so long, of course, as you are not harming anyone or anything via the solo activity that you do). By the way, if you are masturbating to the point that the same is interfering with relationships, activities, or things that you find pleasurable, enjoyable, enriching, or positive for you, then you have an unhealthy addiction to masturbation that you might want to seek professional help for. If, however, this is not the case, I would just enjoy your life as it is and not dwell on all of this stuff too much.
wow buddy i went though the same thing when i was your age. im now 19 and i must say its still hard not to lust lol
I know God understands but as Christians he wants us to have more self control. He says our bodies are temples.And im sure if God were standing there watching you, he would be very sad that one of his children fell into temptation. So he doesnt get mad, if anything He's sad. but He still loves us and he know lusting will only violate our body and minds.
And noo our not a bad person, but it seems you know whats right and if you do than it makes it worst b/c its one thing doing it and not knowing....but it's worst when you know your sinning and continue to do it.
dont try to stop all together b/c that wont work, but what i did was anytime i felt like lusting or masterbating i would say to myself'; is this something that God would be pleased with';,and if you continue to lust and masterbate after that than that leads to an entirely different level of sin that you dont want to be involve with, trust me on that.
First of all, you're not a bad person. Let's get that straight.
Lust is lust, not matter who's doing it. And yes, lust in the eyes of God is bad. It doesn't matter you're a teenager, it's still bad to lust or have lustful thoughts of others. This is (according to the word of God) just as though you were actually committing an act of adultery (sex without marriage). Matthew 5:28 states:
';But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart';
So there you go, lust is bad.
And you CAN control it. Thinking that you can't control it is not the way to think. You need to know that you have power and dominion over your body and it is subject to you desires and will, not the other way around. If you want to please God, show him by controlling the desires of the flesh and abounding in the Spirit.
We all make mistakes. We all fall short of the glory of God. But when you fall, you get back up and keep at it. Don't fall and keep falling. Remember why you fell and what made you fall and don't repeat the same mistake again.
Take care.
Juan,
I feel absolutely confident that ';God'; doesn't care. If he had not wanted humans to be the way they are, they wouldn't be.
It is not bad to masturbate (actually its a pretty good preventative for prostate cancer, its the only thing they've found that reduces the chance and it reduces it by almost a third -- given its one of the most common cancers, that's good - it also helps you develop the capability of having good sex and it releases chemicals into your body that are good for you -- it is across the board good).
Far from making you a bad person I think it makes you a good person.
Now, in fairness, I think that those who use religion to beat down kids like you are actually cultists, and I have no use for them. Further, I do not believe that there is any reason for anyone to take fundamentalism of any form seriously. (I've put a link in below, ONLY read it if you are willing to think about what is there and if it won't bother you -- I don't want to cause you anxiety.)
I know you are good and that there is nothing wrong with you or what you do. Be proud of your penis, enjoy it and do not worry. God is far more loving and accepting than we think.
Have fun and masturbate and lust all you want. I started masturbating at 13 and have never regretted it for a second -- nor have a ever regretted the sex I've had. Thanks, I wouldn't trade a bit of it.
Kind thoughts and lots of love, joy and peace,
Reyn
God made people with self control like when eve disede to eat the apple of the tree she did it with her own will and lust is aganst the bilbe so if God tell you dont do some thing he only understand that you disobade him but he also understand that we are born in sin and make mastkes so the only way he will forgive you for lusting
but masturbateing is normal
The REAL god or gods for sure understand. I mean they would have to wouldn't they. Supposedly they know everything about us.
Don't listen to all the religious crap tho. They ain't got a clue about the real world. Heck they can't even keep from fightin with each other and then they think they know what's best for everyone's life. Any god is probably hoping the religions would just dry up and go away.
Go right ahead and masturbate. It's healthy. Keeps you cleaned out and prevents wet dreams (messy). And all 15yo kids lust. It's hormones man. You are perfectly normal.
Don't worry about what other people say or think. Do what feels good for you.
I don't think masterbation is a sin. But you COULD control yourself if you really wanted to. I think masterbation is completely normal and natural though. I don't feel that God gets mad about masterbation. Pray about it and see how you feel.
i am a 15 year old girl and i'll admit that i masturbate too. i think that God understands because he created us and knows that we sin. if you pray for forgiveness and try your best to be a good person i think he understands. but i dont think it makes you a bad person if you masturbate
Self-pleasing yourself is not bad. It is an intimate moment you experience by yourself. Don't be ashamed, God is not going to get mad. Now if decide to have sex with a girl, God is going to get really mad if you're not married yet!
it's natural and normal, it doesnt say in the bible anything about it being a sin to masterbate!, no you are not a bad person, your'e human!.
There is nothing that says God doesn't like masturbation, just remember to control yourself around girls and try to cut down on the lust. It'll help you a lot. It also actually prevents prostrate cancer so go on right ahead.
You can controll it. God doesnt ever give us more then we can handle. You can controll it, you just choose not to because its easyer.
In response to Chloe's comment about there not being enough kittens, kutos on that one.
What God what to do about it that Boys or man Masturbating here P----- ?
Just about every one do it so ? .
Thats so not true,there arnt enough kittens in the world.
God would rather have you find a girlfriend and stop waxing your carrot.
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